Don’t think that domestic violence can’t happen to you or that you don’t know anyone that is being or has been abused.

You do. Domestic violence is very common, but is still surrounded by such a social taboo that it is not discussed openly.

Think about how many people you know personally, then consider that statistically, one in every four of those people have experienced some form of domestic violence in their lifetime.

If you want to avoid becoming a statistic yourself, one of the best things you can do is to hold yourself in high regard.

Make sure you have high self-esteem and high standards that you will hold yourself and your partner to before you even consider starting a relationship. Your relationship standard should never be, “well, he/she puts me down and calls me names and embarrasses me in front of my friends and family, but he/she doesn’t hit me so it’s okay”.

NO! Your standard should be “I absolutely refuse to tolerate anyone in my life who doesn’t treat me with the utmost respect, love, honesty, and kindness.

I deserve the BEST, and anyone who gives me less than that can take a long walk off a short pier!”

 We all have to do our part in order to combat domestic violence. ~http://www.hotpeachpages.net/ 

Being a survivor does not make one weak. Instead STRONGER.....................

• Please feel free to call with ANY issues of domestic violence and/or sexual assault. We offer a wide range of services for the topic. Whether looking for referral services, shelter locations, or just need someone to talk with; our CRISIS line 910-506-2096 (North Carolina Country) is open 24/7

• The Freephone 24 Hour National Domestic Violence Helpline, run in partnership between Women's Aid and Refuge, is a national service for women experiencing domestic violence, their family, friends, colleagues and others calling on their behalf. - 0808 2000 247

• The National DV Hotline 1-800-799-7233 | 1-800-787-3224 (TTY)